Tuesday 16 August 2011

TENSION

         TENSION


The moment you are in TENSION

 You will   loose   ATTENTION,

Then you are in total CONFUSION,

And you will feel IRRITATION,

Then you spoil personal RELATION,

Ultimately you won’t get CO OPERATION,

Then there will be  in COMPLICATION,

Then your BP may also rise CAUTION,

And you have to take MEDICATION,

Instead understand the SITUATION,

And try to think about a SOLUTION,

Many problems will be solved by DISCUSSION,

This will work out better in your PROFESSION,

Do not think it is my free SUGGESTION,

It is only your PREVENTON,

If you understand my  INTENTION.

 NB: I came across this statement  and I wanted to share it.
Red Lilly in my garden Tirunelveli Tamil nadu
I am  sure you will learn to be away from tension and stress.






Friday 5 August 2011

Personality Development

5-August 2011
Personality Development
A positive attitude can help us in all walks of lives. Being confident and feeling beautiful from within has nothing to do about our physical appearance,every individual has a different personality; So what is personality development all about? How it can alter situations in our everyday life. 

How it can change our life:
Various factors you will need to consider for personality development and therein to have a positive effect on your life. Personality development is about your uniqueness and how you control your emotions, to act in a way that is most advantageous for you.

 When we think and analyze how people around us have behaved or reacted, we are in a way trying to assess how their personalities are, without really knowing what we are doing. A personality is being constructed with a combination of of thoughts and feelings we have within us, resulting  in our behavior. 

Factors of Personality Development:


·         Have a positive attitude
Positive thinking is a major aspect about personality development, which helps to alter the results and to get positive results in your way. Start believing yourself. It  helps  to create better opportunities and  bring about an improved change in your life. you can  approach anything with self-confidence and in turn creates positive feelings . Have a strong  confidence in your  capabilities ,abilities and develop a "Yes; I can’"-- attitude.
·         Motivate Yourself
keep yourself motivated about your tasks and responsibilities. Successful people reach their position because they always had a constant drive and urge to go forward . Focus on your goals. Try to rectify the problem rather than turn your back on it.


·         Believe in your strengths
Think about all your abilities. It will shape and mould you into a better person. Personality development is about portraying yourself in a better fashion and feeling confident about goals you have set for yourself.
Do not focus on your negative side. Make a list of all your positive points. Be encouraging to yourself; if you are facing any problem, relax and try to look at it, in a different way. This will help you to overcome your problems with ease. 
·         Effective Body Language
Your posture  and body language  can say a lot about you. Effective body language includes -facial expression, gestures, how you stand , smile, speak , how you sit and the way you  react etc… develop your body language, to portray you in a better way. Make eye contact while speaking; sit erect .A correct body posture confirms a confident personality.
·         Handle people in  the right way
To be effective, you must work on yourself and on aspects around you. Learning how to handle people is an important factor about personality development.Be honest about your approach and be genuinely interested in people around you. Learning how to handle people with a positive approach can make people around you feel positive and can create a happy environment.
Use your authority with utmost  care and in  respect for others. Effective personality development will help you create  a better impression upon others and build a good rapport with your co-workers.

Focusing on personality development can help you to  overcome many hurdles in your life. Problems that may seem to be large , can appear suddenly easy for you. Fill your mind with positive and fresh thoughts. Be cheerful always.
Remember, how you present yourself has a lot to do with the way in which, things can turn out for you. So, turn things in your favor with successful ways of personality 
development.

Remember GOD has created you in a unique way..

So keep going..... and learn to accept yourself as you are..

Learn to Correct your personality

Do not  try to pose as an another person

Flower Show @Kodaikanal-Tamil nadu
 Be yourself... Enjoy

 MAY GOD BLESS YOU